"How can I make sure we continue to make the RIGHT DECISIONS on the day?"
"There's no such thing as the right decision, just the decision you make at the time" This is what my Mum used to say to me when I was fretting about stuff in my 20s. Obviously now I can barely remember what those angst ridden issues were, but this saying, it's really stayed with me. And as I see more and more birth-ie social feeds telling women what to do ('challenge your induction!', 'don't consent to vaginal examinations!', 'give birth at home!' etc., etc.), it comes back