Becoming a mother doesn't have to define you, but it will mark you for the rest of your life Yesterday, I spent the morning with a woman I doula’d for with both her babies. We were reflecting on her births; how different each was and the effect they had had on her sense of herself. She won’t mind me saying that she’s a classic Type A personality, with a high-powered job in one of the big consulting firms. She hadn’t expected that motherhood would land on her like this. When I

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While it is an utter failing of our culture that childbirth is so closely equated with trauma, it is not without basis.

My job as your Pocket Doula isn’t to be present because you’re scared - it’s to instil in you the confidence to recognise your fear and use

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I am - finally - properly back to work this week. I have written a review of a book about maternity activism for AIMS (look out for it in...

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It was way back in 2013 that I briefed this logo to a trusted art director I'd worked with in my previous life. Back then I had a 4 year...